I never thought for a second that this could or would happen to me. We had been dating for six months when I noticed changes in his attitude towards me and the relationship. I complained about it and he told me it wasn’t something I should worry about. He was giving me excuses here and there. As naïve as I was, I believed him and stayed with him. For two months, there wasn’t any change in his attitude and it was getting to me.
So I spoke to some of my friends and they asked me to go over to his end and have a heart to heart talk with him. I did just that. I went over to his hostel, knocked for several times but there was no response. He shared the room with only one other guy and his roommate was mostly on campus so I didn’t think he was around. There was some noise coming from the room and it seemed it was been covered my music so I knew my boyfriend was in there.
I started banging on the door until he opened it. He was surprised to see me there and I took a close look at him. He was only in his boxers, he was sweating and his voice was faint. He was trying to prevent me from entering and I was insisting that I wasn’t going anywhere until we spoke so after a while, I pushed him and entered there room. The room was a bit dark but I could make out another figure.
I don’t know what would have happened if I had walked in on them because with what I saw, the little that I saw, I was sinking to the ground. I couldn’t believe that this was happening to me. The lady didn’t even care, she was lying naked on the bed as my boyfriend stood behind me. I looked at him for a while and slowly walked to the door. He locked it after I stepped out but I couldn’t move. I stood there crying as people passed. He must have thought that I had left because I heard sounds coming from the room.
The lady too wasn’t the quiet type. She was moaning as my guy also made some horny sounds. After I had cried for a while, I called one of my roommates to meet me at the entrance of his hostel. I didn’t know how I was going to leave that place all by myself. When she saw me, no one had to tell her something was wrong. She and my other roommate were so mad upon hearing my story. They gave me all sorts of advice but mostly they asked me to break up with him.