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Who Am I To Tell Her What To Do?


Hello Aunty Abena, good morning. Pls I’m commenting on the guy that complains about his girlfriend being dirty. Leaving used pads and dirty bowls in water for days.

Aunty, I have lived with my sister for years and it is just the same way she is bringing her daughter up. I’m always hurt. I have explained and tried my best to teach the girl but no, she won’t change. And I know because her own mother doesn’t do it so who am I to tell her what to do? I remember having a fight with my sister just bcos of how she is bringing up her kids. She told me a lot, let me reserve them for another day. It is how their mothers started with them at home.

I want to use this opportunity to tell parents on this page especially mothers to bring their kids up the right way. When God gives you kids, it is left for you to teach them how to live. You don’t sit them down to talk about developmental changes, things about life, education and responsibilities. You only live them to eat. They are left to take what their friends, teachers and TV says they should do.How do you have a gal of 17years and
she can’t cook, clean, sweep or mop.
How???!??‍♀️ A Ghanaian mother, and a Northern woman to be precise. Pls take all your energy to help them.

Don’t let your status change the way you bring your kids up. That’s why the Bible says in Proverbs 13:24 (King James Bible)
He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes. So please do the needful
Teach them how to grow to be on their own. And in Proverbs 6:20; The Bible makes us understand that we, the children have to keep the teachings of our parents in our hearts locked. That these teachings will lead us, teach us, advice and protect us. So if you are a parent and you don’t do this…

How then can we the children live? Sometimes I just thank God how my parents brought me up, especially my dad.
I’m grateful bcos when I see those gals I weep inside for them.Bcos the children, their future kids will suffer. I’m pleading with ? the mothers. Because I just pity my niece. I hope one day she realizes what she is doing and change.

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