Was I Wrong to Let Her Go?

DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,

Greetings. God bless you and your fans for the good work

I was in a relationship with a lady from 2018. I was 26 years and she was 24. She was a good girl, loving and very trustworthy. We planned marrying this year 2020. Unfortunately I lost my dad in May 2019. The saddest part is that I lost my mom (the breadwinner) in November same year too.

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I am the eldest of 5 children and the pressure on me is too much. My current situation wasn’t going to make marriage this year possible so I explained to her. Since my expenses had changed, I asked if she would be willing to come stay with me and my siblings since they are young. I am the guardian now (we live in a 4 bedroom house in some slum in Accra)

Unfortunately, she wasn’t ready to abide by that so I finally had to let her go. I really love her and I still do. It seems she has moved on but I always ask if I’m really going to find a good and trustworthy lady like her again. Was I wrong to let her go?

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