DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
Hi, I want an answer but hide my identity. I’ve been dating a guy outside Ghana for more than a year now. We’re planning on getting married so he asked for the list of the marriage items which I sent to him. Now the problem is, he has divided the things into 4 and has taken 1 quarter and is asking me to take 3 quarters of the expenses so that means I am buying the greater part of the marriage lists.
Secondly, his mom is in France and she will be coming down to Ghana because of the marriage to represent him since he’s not in Ghana. Now even though I live in Accra, I am to go and meet her in B/A because that’s where she’s from. He’s told me that when I go to visit his mom, I should surprise her with a gift since I will be meeting her for the first time. I was like, “okay. What do you think I should get for her?” and he said I should give his mom money
In fact, I wasn’t happy with his demand. Please help me. Do you think it’s advisable to go into this kind of marriage. Sometimes he’ll ask me to buy some things here in Ghana and send to him with my own money he’ll pay later but he won’t even pay too. He’s done this not once,.not twice.