Should I Forgive Her?

Thanks to all manokekame fans out there
Auntie Abena, I am a 22 year old boy who has a girlfriend I am one year older than. We’ve been together for 2 years now and we love ourselves so much. But my love for this girl declined when an incident happened.

I was an shs graduate who worked hard to provide for myself as to enter tertiary and this girl too was working. I’ve never cheated on her for the long time I’ve been with her. I used to work with one security agency as a security guard. I was paid 500 cedis monthly. I’m not a stingy type of person, I could give her like half of my salary because I didn’t want her to be in want. But this girl is still not satisfied with what I give her. She is not an expensive girl too, I knew her to be a cool girl but things are getting out of hands.

A time came when she asked me for 100 cedis to buy drugs to treat herself for some infections. As a loving boyfriend, I gave her the money but not knowing she actually ll wanted the money to buy a wig after asking me money to braid her hair a week before. The worst part of this is that 3 months ago, she told me she was pregnant. I told her to give birth but this girl told me she would abort it by hook or crook.
She requested 500 cedis and though it was my whole month’s salary, I gave it to her foolishly without investigating if she was actually pregnant

She took the money and afterwards asked for more to buy blood tonics which I also gave to her. This girl lied again, she wasn’t pregnant. She confessed herself and is now actually asking for forgiveness
Please manofans, should I forgive her?

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