Should I Blame My Ex Husband


Good morning. Please my name is Becky and a silent follower of your page. I got married at age of 27 and it lasted for just a year. We started having issues from the 8th month of the marriage after I realized that he was into black charm and other stuff. I had to pack out and that was when my problems started.

Auntie Abena, since I left that marriage, no man and I mean not a single man has proposed to me for eight years now. And is not that I’m ugly too. I have been to men of God for help but nothing is happening. I felt so frustrated that I went to him (ex husband) to ask for forgiveness in case I offended him in anyway. He said I should let my whole family come and beg him but I told him that will not be possible.

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About four years ago, he sent me a text message that read “you think you have been forgiven.” I don’t understand it till now. I’m so frustrated that sometimes I feel like ending it all especially when people ask, “when are you getting married,you are not growing any younger.”

Sometimes I cry the whole day and nothing is happening. I will be 36.years this November. I really need help. People see me outside and they think I’m the happiest person but I’m dying softly. Please hide my identity and post for me.
Thank you and alert me when posted.

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