She’s Too Shy


Please is it normal for a girl to be shy of her boyfriend? I know she loves me and all that but she’ll rather text “I love you” than say it. She finds it hard to even hug me and initiating sex is a problem. I asked her point blank if she feels shy and she said yes. How is this even possible? Someone I’ve dated for years.

I’m the jovial type who likes cracking jokes, cooking, supporting her and all that. This is becoming boring and I’m finding interest in talking to other girls rather than her. I’ve done everything to teach her these basic things but to no avail. Auntie Abena I’m tired. This relationship is very boring.


Chief Iddi is asking Why Should Relationships Hurt because he believes people aren’t doing all the things they should to have successful relationships.

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