DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
Good afternoon. I have this lady I’ve been dating for almost a year now. She’s loving and fun to be with so she’s got all my attention for now. The problem I have with her is that she doesn’t know how to do any house chores not to talk of cooking. For of this reason she mostly buys food outside when coming to my place. Sometimes too, I’ll have to cook then we eat.
I must confess she’s really good in bed and that’s one thing that has kept me with her plus she’s financially sound so she doesn’t disturb me with money. Sometimes I’ll have to force and buy something for her. I don’t have a problem with her current situation since I can cook and do other stuff in the house but I’m looking at the future where we have made a family and want to raise children.
What values is she going to put in these children? Is it the same lazy lifestyle, and will she cooperate with me in training our children? The saddest part is that she’s not willing to learn. And this lifestyle of hers has got me thinking. Please let your audience help me because I know the implementations of not having your partner help you in training your kids.