DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
Please I’ll like you to discuss this on your page so I know what people especially men think or know about Female Genital Mutilation (FGM).
Will it be a turn off for any guy if he later finds out the lady he truly loves and plans to settle down with is a victim? Will you stop loving her because she’s lost that part of her body? Is it just like losing a leg or hand?
FGM doesn’t mean you are a piece of log with no nerves to feel anything. I know some ladies who ain’t victims but have problems with their feelings and have never experienced orgasm but on the contrary some FGM victims enjoy sex so much that they experience orgasm.
A friend of mine is about losing her relationship because her man just found out she’s a victim of FGM. Meanwhile they have been having great sex together just that she doesn’t always allow him touch her vjay. The guy likes to lick which she always prevents but this unfortunate day, he wouldn’t take no for an answer and insisted. Though my friend did everything possible to stop him but she was pushed to the wall as to why she doesn’t allow access there. She told him and since then he has been ignoring her.
He barely picks up her calls or returns missed calls and hasn’t seen him for almost two weeks now. Please we will like to know what your fans think about this.