DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
I’m a Muslim guy and 25 years old. There’s this lady I’ve liked since childhood, and so lucky I got the chance to be her lover two years ago. We hail from the same family and I loved her so much that I sacrificed everything for her happiness, I don’t smoke, I don’t drink, I don’t do clubbing, I’m honest, loyal, I’m a business man.
I made sure she didn’t lack anything, I supported her dreams. I was very open with her, she even knows the password to my phone. I made sure I never hid anything from her, we got married in November, 2020. All of a sudden she said she’s no more interested in the marriage. After I had made sure she was interested in the marriage before I made everything official to the family.
Her reason is I’m too cool to be with (just because anytime there’s an issue, she’s the one at fault). I apologize to her even if I know I’m right, I do everything a perfect husband would do. The only problem I had with her was that she was hiding everything of hers from me. She treated me as if I was useless and the only person desperate for the relationship. I bought her food even after giving her chop money. I bought her clothes, everything and paid for her salon bills and toiletries.
She left home about 2 weeks ago and she’s blocked me on all social media platforms. I’m the one who bought her the phone -iPhone XR- she’s using. I fell sick when she started with her drama and grew very lean. I’m the type that can’t stand pressure. So I was hurt so much that I was always over thinking. I’m single now and I don’t think I’ll be in any relationship for the next 10 years, I’m scared ?. If my own family member can betray me, then how about an outsider? It’s a long story. This is all I can say for now. SHARE IT ME FOR PLEASE.