My Wife Doesn’t Want to Wear Waist Beads

DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,

I hope by the grace of God you and all the manofans are doing well. Auntie Abena I am a Pastor and a fan on your page and I love and appreciate the good works that you and the family are doing, God richly bless.

Auntie Abena I have a problem which I want your noble fans to help me out, I am a married man and we have  been married for almost 11years now. I am married to the most beautiful and wonderful woman on earth, I love my wife very much but my problem is, I am not attracted to her when she is not wearing beads. It is natural for me, I have tried all I can to work it out but it’s not working.

My wife too doesn’t like putting it on, I have been buying it for her on several occasions but she will never wear them. At times I have to fight with her before she wears it for like two days. We can be in the house for months without sex, and anytime she feels for sex and I don’t want to then there’s a problem. I  have discussed it with her but no result. I just don’t know what to do and you know I can never and will never look elsewhere, over my dead body, but I am confused I want your noble fans to help me.

Note: I once told her she will be the cause of I fall but still no changes.
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