My Weight is Driving Men Away


Good evening. I need your help. Over the years, I have struggled with my weight and relationships. I have tried everything possible under the sun to loose weight but I keep gaining weight. I am not a heavy eater either but it seems that any food aroma I smell makes me gain more weight. Because of this, my relationships are an eye sore.

Auntie Abena, a lot of people say they love heavy women or women with a little bit of extra weight but once I get to meet such people, they tend to loose that interest. Auntie, I am very beautiful, that I know but I can’t seem to keep any man for more than 2 months.

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Recently, I met this guy who was gushing over the fact that I am all he wants, fat thighs, big boobs and a great sense of humor. After that time, we met once again and he said the connection was there. But after that, he has just gone mute on me. I send messages on WhatsApp, of which he sees but just doesn’t reply.

I am beginning to like this guy but I don’t know what else to do or say to make us regain the connection. I want your followers to please give their honest opinions because I am willing to do anything so I don’t jinx this or make it worse. Please help me. I want to enjoy a healthy and long relationship just like my peers.

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