My Side Chick wants My Time

DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,

Thank you for your good works. Please I need a fair advice from your noble audience.

This is my story. I have been living with my wife for the past five years. Even though I cheated on her under extreme circumstances with my ex, I have never slept outside my home since living with my wife for the past five years.

Now I have a new side chick and she is demanding I schedule my time so that I can sleep at her place too as often as possible. Please I need advice as to how to go about this so that I wouldn’t hurt my wife at home. I may sound silly but it is real. Thank you very much.