My Husband Abandoned Our Baby to Go and F^ck


I’m 29 years old and have been married for almost 4 years now. I have a 2 year old daughter. My husband came home from church last Sunday saying he had something to tell me. I kept pushing him to say it but he didn’t so the next day I asked him again. I was worried because he said the same thing like 4 months ago but never said anything.

He was like it’s not an easy thing to say but it’s eating him up. He kneeled better me and said, “I’m sorry. Please forgive me because I have betrayed your love and trust for me.” After, he said a lady colleague from his workplace is 6 months pregnant for him. So I asked how it happened because I know him very well, he is always at home even on his off days.

He said the lady lives 10mins away from us. She invited him to her house and it happened but it was only once. Then 6 weeks later, she called and said she was pregnant. He tried to convince her to abort it but she refused and is using the pregnancy to threaten him. That he couldn’t hide it from me anymore.

He brought his family to beg me not to leave him but I’m so confused right now because all the trust is gone. Auntie Abena, could you believe that he left my daughter at home while she was sleeping and went to have sex with that woman? He came home and met her crying at the door.

I work in the evenings and he does nights so that we could both have time to babysit when the other one goes to work. What if someone had heard the crying and called 911 to take her away from me? I just found out a few days ago that I’m pregnant also. I’m in so much pain that I can’t even concentrate on prayer.

Please help with advice and please has someone gone through this pain before and how did you deal with it? Thank you.

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Written by Abena Magis

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