DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
I’ve been dating this girl for close to 7 years, we are now planning on marrying and as a matter of fact we’ve bought most of the things. As do every relationship, we’ve had our ups and downs. I’ve cheated a couple of times despite my girl being a unique lady which I regretted and restrained from my ways.
Fast forward, anytime she does something awkward that I complain about, she’ll use my past to defend herself. I want each and everyone on your platform to advise a brother who is madly in love and getting ready to marry someone who uses his past isllto lash him in the face. This girl treats me anyhow.
Whenever she’s angry she can insult my parents without thinking through. I can’t do that: she has been posted to the North as a teacher and I strongly believe she’s not being frank and sincere with me concerning a guy she’s living in the same house with. She hates it when I talk about her and the guy yet her submission shows there something going on there.
I’m at a point in my life where I need God to keep my cool to keep myself moving because I’m losing myself. She doesn’t want me to put her right. In other words she’s always right because she will use my past in every single current situation
PLEASE WHAT SHOULD I DO??
ANY ADVICE? HELP A HURTING SOUL ????????????????