Hi Auntie Abena, I’m a member of your page and I’ve been following most of your posts. Kindly post this for me but please keep me anonymous
I’ve been dating my girlfriend since last year and I really love her. We’ve broken up three times already but we’re still back together. The last time we broke up she came back saying we never broke up. I really love her but I can’t say same about her.
She once told me she’s been trying to love me but it doesn’t seem to work out for her. She said she knows I love her so much and I’m a very good person and that she liked me but didn’t want to lose me. She can’t take it seeing me happy with someone else.
I’ve never cheated on her, I don’t hide anything from her, I have her fingerprints on my phone and she goes through my phone anytime she wants to. She has a key to my place, comes around unannounced and I don’t have any problem with that because I don’t have anything to hide. Her parent know me and I’ve introduced her to my mum as well. My mum even calls her all the time to check up on her.
Auntie, we’ve broken up since June this year after she requested for an iPhone 8 which I couldn’t afford at that time. I was trying to advice her against getting the phone since she wanted to open a shop of her own. I told her that money could be used for the shop then later she can get any phone she wants. I promised to get her the iPhone later but I’ll get her an android phone to use for the meantime. She rejected it then broke up with me.
It wasn’t easy handling the breakup but I had to move on since she found someone else and was dating about a month after we broke up.
The problem now is she’s pregnant for the new guy and wants to keep the pregnancy but doesn’t think she wants to marry him because she’s not happy with the guy like she was with me. A few minutes ago she texted me saying she wants to spend the rest of her life with me and she thinks she can’t find me in anyone else.
I told her let’s just be friends but she’s still saying we’ll talk more later. I really don’t want to go back there for any reason, I’m just confused now and I don’t know what to do. Will be reading comments