DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
I’m a silent reader of the stories on your page. I must say that you are doing a wonderful job.
I’ve been with this lady for almost 4 years now and we have plans of settling down soon. The truth is she is all I’ve ever wanted in a lady. She has made countless sacrifices for our relationship and yeah I have equally reciprocated that love. In as much as I’m really not stable financially, I always try my possible best to make her feel comfortable and yeah she can attest to that fact and keeps saying it every day.
But my problem is, anytime we chat she hardly laughs at anything. Not because I don’t talk about interesting things oo. I am one of the most interesting people you would ever meet but that’s just it with her. Most of our conversations are more like me doing the talking most of the time whiles she listens and only replying when necessary.
Here lies the case that anytime she talks to other guys she sounds so lively most of the time. I will be sometimes talking to her and she will be so quiet but let’s say another guy calls her that very moment, she will sound so lively and sometimes will be laughing loudly making me feel like I can’t make her happy but others can.
Auntie Abena, when this happens, I just wanna let her go so she could be happy. It’s not that I’ve someone in mind. I wanna still date her but I can’t force someone to love me. I’ve spoken to her severally about this but she just doesn’t give me a better reason for that attitude.
I sometimes ask myself if I would be happy with her. Maybe she is dating me because I’m a very nice person and yeah a lot of people say that most of the time. I can do everything, except things that are evil, to make another smile. What should I do? Please I want your manofans to advise me.