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DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
Good morning
Please I need an advice. I’m in a relationship with my boyfriend and it’s been a year since we started dating.
Recently he posted 2 years memory of his ex girlfriend. That day he was late for work which made me ask him what was happening because he goes to work very early in the morning.
He replied that he was waiting for his Snap to load with the WiFi at home so I thought it’s his normal memories. Later on in the day I watched the Snap he uploaded and to my surprise it was videos of him and his ex. I got angry and felt so disrespected. When I called him, he realized I was angry so he said he will call back when I’ve calmed down. I was even thinking he will delete it but he didn’t. The Snap stayed there for 24 hrs before it disappeared.
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Mind you, my boyfriend is someone who has never told me “I miss you,” or “I love you.” He doesn’t say words that really shows he loves me as much I do and even if I say those nice words to him, he will give me a cheeky reply. Can you believe that he went to see her 3 times in a week? When I asked him about it he told me it was business.
To be frank, aside all these my boyfriend has always been there for me anytime I need his help. Also, we talk mostly all the time. I don’t know if he loves me like the way I do him. He thinks I like complaining about unnecessary stuff. He sees nothing wrong with him not telling me “I miss you” or “I love you”
He doesn’t post me on social media but prefers other girls.
I need your help to understand if I’m overreacting or what he’s doing isn’t normal. Am I being petty?
My second question: is it good to I live with your husband’s parents whiles your husband is abroad?
Thank you
Hmmmm you are not overreacting… Give him the break he needs let him be with Hu he prefers…
Am experiencing the same thing with my husband except for the fact that he for me am married to home and it’s been going on b4 we got married
Everything shows he doesn’t love you and wants his ex back… breakup with him before he does…you will find someone better ..leave as fast as you can …he has no feelings for you
I’ve been there and I kept giving myself hope until he cut me deep in the heart that I will never forget, my dear poster please have a rethink.
You are in it