DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
Greetings. Please I need the views of your cherished followers. I have a 4 year old child with a lady who is a nurse. I take care of all the needs (educational, clothes etc) of the child. I pay for their rent because my child lives with her and I give her a 1000 cedis every month for the upkeep of the child.
Auntie, two weeks after giving her the money, she will call and request for extra money to the point that they are starving if i don’t help. For the sake of my child, I try to sort her out with such payments. Note that I don’t question her about her salary because it’s her money.
I opened an account for our child and had GH¢ 3,000 in it. I made her the caretaker of the account so it’s her signatory but I’m able to check the account balance on it. I checked today and to my surprise, the money in it is gone. I questioned her and asked her to give me an account of what she uses the money for. She replied that she doesn’t owe me any explanation and i can’t question her on how she uses the money. In fact, my own money that I have been sending oo.
Please, I’m confused. I don’t know what to do. My mum is not alive otherwise i would have given my child to her. Please what else can I do? Help a brother out please.