DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
I’m very confused right now and need your advice. I’m a young girl of 23 years and I have three boyfriends which makes me really uncomfortable.
My first boyfriend was my mate in the same university. We’ve been dating for almost 3 years now but I have seen him only three times. He hardly calls me as I’m the only one who does the calling always. He only calls once in a while so I met a guy from my church who gave me all the attention I needed. He proposed and I accepted so we’ve been dating for a year now but, all of a sudden all these attention and care he showed me changed. He only calls me when he wants me in his room for sex.
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Then last year December, I met this guy on WhatsApp. We talked almost every day and I became fond of him. He proposed to me and I accepted because I couldn’t bear the pressure he was giving me. But the following day after my acceptance, I decided to end things with him because I just couldn’t accept someone I don’t really know. Before I could tell him I wanted to end things, he told me he had a medical condition and he was blind.
Because of his condition, I decided to be with him so he doesn’t feel unwanted because he is a very nice hardworking guy. But within me I know I don’t love any of them but don’t know how to break it to them, especially the blind guy. Not that I didn’t love them at first but their actions just made me tired of them especially the first two.