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I’m Scared For My Husband.

DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,

Sister Abena, I don’t know what I’ve done to deserve the beautiful heart I call my husband and I’m feeling so lucky but scared.

I come from a home that even if you’re married by age 30 you’ll be divorced and this keeps happening. It happened to my mother, my aunts, some of my cousins too. I decided at a very young age to wait until I’m 30 years but body no be firewood and had boyfriends. I deliberately dated guys I knew weren’t interested in anything long term.

My husband and I were just casual friends and we were having casual sex like friends with benefits. I kinda liked him but because of my decision, I didn’t think I’ll ever fall for him. I fell in love with him and broke things off. That’s when he also realized he’s in love with me and refused to let me go. We tried to continue with the FWB but we became like lovers which made me hate him because of how much I was loving him.

When I broke things off a second time, he asked me to marry him and we’re now married. But I’m scared. I’m 29 years old and next year is my 30th. We’ve been married for 2 years without any child. His family has been very supportive and telling me not to worry because God will give me a child when it’s time.

My husband is so sweet to me and holds me like an egg. There’s nothing that’s too big or small for him to do and I’m so happy with him but I’m scared. I keep on having nightmares and there’s always this woman with a knife chasing after him in my dreams. Sometimes he runs very fast but sometimes she catches him and I see the knife before I wake up. I’m scared for him but he’s not scared and keeps telling me not to be scared.

How do I go about it? I’ve told my pastor and we’re praying about it but my husband doesn’t believe in such things and doesn’t want to join me to pray. Please advice me because I’m scared. Last week he slept without any issue but when he woke up, there was a huge boil on his face. That very night I had a dream that the woman hit him…at the same place. His sisters are now saying I’m a witch who wants to kill him but claiming it’s a dream. I don’t know what to do.

Written by East@Edito468

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