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I’m Pregnant For My Friend’s Boyfriend

DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,

Hello. Good morning.
God bless you for the good works you’re doing. Please keep me anonymous. I’m stuck and don’t know what to do next so please I want Mano fans to help me out on what decision to take.

I’ve been with this guy for 2 years now, he’s 3 years older than I am. There’s this thing he normally does which I don’t like but I think the love I have for him is not making me see the harm he’s been causing me. Sometimes when he needs sex and I’m not ready for it he’ll beat me, tear my attire and will force his way out then will later say he’s sorry. This has been happening for almost 3 months now.

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He’s told me he’s not stopping any moment soon (because he sees the first and second round affair as friendly match game). For the past few days, I’ve gathered all the spoilt clothes, underwear and I feel this guy is no more interested in me though he keeps telling me he loves me alone. He normally does this in my room but when I go to his room we’re ok with 1 round but at my end 1 or 2 rounds is not enough for him.

Just last last month, a handsome police friend of mine (he used to have feelings for me but I turned him down because he’s my friend’s ex and I used that opportunity to reconcile them) approached me and asked me out on a date. I didn’t turn him down but went with him and one thing led to another (we had sex which I agreed to because I wanted to feel if sex is really hurtful like how my guy made it look like).

We booked one guest house to sort things out. As in me telling him why I can’t be with him but this guy said it’s me he wants so I should give ‘us’ a try because my friend is not the kinda girl he wanted. Auntie Abena now, I’m 4 weeks pregnant and I told the guy (my police friend because he’s responsible) and he kept on asking me not to terminate it because he really wants me as a wife and life partner.

For the past few days, he keeps on asking when he should come around with his family to perform all the rights so we start planning for our traditional marriage. I’m very confused at the moment because I’ve not broken up with my guy and here lies the case that my baby father hasn’t broken up with my friend too. I want Mano fans to help me with what to do. I don’t know if I should keep the pregnancy so he marries me or I should terminate it without his knowledge to keep my friendship with his girlfriend.

I don’t want it to be like I’ve betrayed my friend and boyfriend. The girl is in school and I’m a young lady at age 23.

Pls kindly notify me when posted I’ll read comments
Thank you.

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Written by Abena Magis

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