I’m Married but Torn Between 2 Other Men


Good morning auntie Abena, please keep me. I will be reading replies from the comments section. I am confused and don’t know what to do.

I got married early this year to a man I dated for a year. Even though he exhibited jealousy during dating, I thought he will change. He always complains he doesn’t have money. Whenever he gets money and I tell him to save then hell will break loose.

Auntie Abena can you imagine I even rented where we stay? Not that he is not working oo but when I complain wahala don come.

My main issue is I have this friend who works in the North. We have been friends for 5 years now. He proposed to me but I turned him down because he was married then. He has now divorced the wife and wants me (he knows I am now married).

Four years ago I met another guy on FB and became friends. He is outside the country at the moment but sends me money every month. He knows I’m married but he is not. He asked me if I would like to join him which I jovially said yes to.

Can you imagine he has sent someone to do my papers for me so that he goes with me? I’m confused as I’m typing. As for my marriage, hmmm.

Written by Abena Magis

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  1. Dear sis,,it is better to follow your heart and not can still go head to report your husband to your marriage counselors..All men are of one mother….lastly de devil you know…….

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