I’m Between the Young and the Old Man


Please there is something bothering me and I want some advise from you. I met this man who is 20 years older than me and showed interest in me. We have been together for some months now and he wants to come and see my parents.

The problem now is I have met someone else I like and who is also younger. He is also willing to get married to me next year. However the older man who is 20 years has everything to make my life comfortable.

Now I don’t know what to do. If I am to tell this new person I met in March that I am not interested, it’s really going to affect him. The older man is a divorcée and has 2 children.

Thank you very much. I know you can give me some advice as soon as possible because the one who is 20 years older than me, wants to come and see my parents this week. I don’t even know how to go about telling him that I am not interested any longer in him.

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Written by Abena Magis

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  1. ” has everything to make my life comfortable ”
    please, as you have no hand in building this status, don’t count on it, as he have kids, have plans to help him build yours with you.

    someone else i like and who is also younger vs older man 20 yrs than me with everything to make your life comfortable….

    the choice is STILL YOURS

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