I Want to Take Our Son Away from Him


You’re doing a great job. God bless you. I’m a lady of 24 years and have been dating a guy for almost three years. When we first met, he told me he had a girlfriend but it was a complicated kind of relationship so I believed and decided to date him.

This guy has really made me see pepper in this relationship. He insults me anytime he wants and sometimes compares me to his girlfriend. I have been with him for 3 long years so you can imagine the abuse I’ve gone through.

I got pregnant and gave birth to a baby boy for him just last year September. I thought our son would bring us together and make him stop hurting me but, he can’t stop. He is even planning to get married with his girlfriend which I can see through his messages that he is making her believe he will marry her.

He has never done anything for me or bought anything for me before. It’s always his girlfriend enjoying but not me. He’s bought a phone for her but doesn’t care if I live or not.

Auntie Abena, I am going through emotional stress. I have decided to take the boy away from him because he has time for his girlfriend more than our son. When I complain too, he’ll tell me I like quarreling too much.

I want an advise from the Manofans, should I take the boy away without him seeing him so he goes ahead with his girlfriend?

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Written by Abena Magis

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  1. Hi, please don’t think of him marrying you because of the baby or anything. i urge you to read Auntie Abena’s post of a woman ‘ putting on ring whiles she’s not married ‘. you will learn alot from there. 4 to 5 kids would still not give you what you want in 12 years.

    stop thinking of the other woman in the picture, it is not healthy. what he does for her is of no use to you. expect nothing from Him, and only demand he is responsible for your son.

    if you want to change where you stay, fine. but if denying Him access to the child or fatherly responsibilities then trust its a bad idea.
    please don’t get pregnant for him until he’s your husband, don’t let him enter the gate.

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