DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
How are you today? I hope you and your fans are doing well. I’m not sure if I should consider it an issue, but there’s something about me that I’m scared will keep me single for a long time.
I’m 24 years old and, weirdly enough, I’ve always wanted to be with a girl from a wealthy family. I don’t know why, but I’m simply drawn to such girls, and there’s a worry that some of them are disrespectful, inconsiderate, and rude. My concern is that I might not be treated with the respect I deserve. One may say that I simply wish to prey on such a person, but to be honest, I’m not even close to being a gold digger… My honesty is very important to me, and I have a nice heart and a clear conscience.
As a result, I’ve been single for a long time because I haven’t found anyone. I’ve received advances from other good and gorgeous ladies, and I’ve turned them all down simply because they aren’t in that category. When people ask why I’m single, I’m afraid to tell them. They might label me a gold digger or a hypergamist, I’m worried. This has been with me for a long time and is slowly but steadily eating me up.
I’d be grateful if you and your followers could give me some advice. I want to know if it’s wrong to have a strong attraction for ladies from a wealthy background even if you have no intention of preying on them and aren’t from a wealthy family yourself, but you simply want someone to love and build a future with? I’d be interested in hearing your thoughts in the comments section. Thank you very much.
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