DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
God bless you for your good works.
I met a guy on this page & we have been dating this guy for almost a year now. I am an independent woman and have my own business.
Auntie Abena, we love each other very much but de the problem is that from the beginning of our relationship he sent me money without asking (this happened just twice)
Sometime after, he started asking me for money almost every day, “give me credit, give me data, send me money,” etc.
Auntie Abena, this has become a normal thing with him that now I’m the one always giving. The most annoying thing too is how he will come and visit me I will cook for him. We will have sex and after that will ask for transportation too from me oo. This has been happening for the past 9 months of our relationship.
Auntie Abena, I haven’t been able to save for myself because he doesn’t give me anything. Hmmmm Auntie Abena if I talk about it, he will blackmail me emotionally.
This thing was eating me up so 2 weeks I told him that taking care of myself, paying my own bills and supporting him at the same time was too much for me. That is all I said oooo Auntie.
He sent me a message blackmailing me emotionally again so I told him my peace of mind. For the past 2 weeks he hasn’t called or texted me. I’ve also decided not to call or text too.
My question is please is it wrong to talk about your feelings to your man or expressing how you feel?
NB. He works too ooo but has always been complaining of not having money.
Will be reading through your comments. No insults please. Thanks