DEAR AUNTIE ABENA,
I trust you are doing great. Please help me by sharing this on our platform????. I need advice. Thank You????. I have been with this Lady since Class (3) three. I’m now in the College and she is learning a trade (seamstress).
Growing up, we used to talk a lot on phone but skipped talking about our feelings until after SHS. She has been very supportive in every aspect of my life especially financially, emotionally and morally. I feel like I owe her. She was and is very restricted by her parents. She only gets time to visit me on Sunday afternoons which I hate.
Apart from that, she is poor in communication, dressing, romance et al. I want a girlfriend who is good in all these aspects but she’s not. Above all, I need someone who will be by my side not one unless by phone. I have spoken to her several times about it but she can’t seem to adjust.
I must admit, I don’t have feelings for her as I used to do. But I am her everything. She loves me to the fullest. I have decided to end the relationship but don’t know how to do so without hurting her.