How Do I Deal With a Catfish?


Good afternoon. I have been asking myself some questions which has kept me worried. How can a lady visit her boyfriend and prefer a Guest house instead of the guy’s house? The issue is met this girl on Fb and we became lovers so we wanted to meet. She lives in Elmina while I am in Accra. She called me that she is coming to pay me a visit which I agreed on but on her way coming there, she sent me a message that she didn’t want to go to my house but rather wanted a hotel instead.

I told her I don’t have enough money for the hotel. She said she will pay so I agreed. It’s not that I didn’t have the money but I didn’t like the hotel idea. Seeing her alone put me off. She was such a slim lady, I mean very slim and looked so different from all the pictures she sent to me. It was not the same body that was standing in front of me but I had no option so I took her to the hotel.

Auntie Abena, this girl undressed right in front of me but the THING was still sleeping. Why? Because the love was gone. Meanwhile she was in the mood for sex so she asked that we should take shower together. I agreed but just after things started, in the middle of the game she had a call and she stopped what we were doing to answer to call. I fell asleep and woke to see her still on the call, I did not say a word.

After the call, all she could say was, “we should continue.” Auntie Abena, the toto was more than a manhole and her breast was like tatale but I managed to do it though was not from my heart. The next morning, I asked her why she said she didn’t want to go to my house and she said it was an advise from a spiritualist that she is under spiritual marriage so she should not go to my house for our first meeting.

That has kept me confused that I don’t want to hear anything from her again. I want to know if what I am doing is the right thing for breaking up with her? Thank you.

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Written by Abena Magis

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